Monday, June 17, 2013

Our Magical, Surreal "Big Country Day!" - Part 3

After Tom finished his opening set for Big Country, another band called "The Skydivers" came on to perform a second opening act before the big event. This was the perfect opportunity to run Evan home so he could go to bed. It was already getting close to his bedtime and he was so tired. I'm so glad this show took place so close to our house! I was able to get him home to the babysitter and return to the venue without missing any of Big Country's performance!

When the band came out, Tom moved right up to the front of the stage but I found a little space off to the side where I didn't feel too closed-in by tall bodies and could still have a great view of the stage. The band was really fantastic. They played an even mix of old and new songs and had so much energy and enthusiam. It was really awesome.
 
 
At one point, Tom came over to me and whispered in my ear to tell me what the front man, Mike Peters, had written on his guitar: "Dissidents Rock" and "Where The Rose Is Sown."  The Dissidents was Tom's band in college and they often performed Big Country and Alarm songs (The Alarm is Mike Peters' other band). "Where The Rose Is Sown" is the first Big Country song Tom ever heard and the one that got him interested in the band. Both of these factoids were contained in the newspaper article written about Tom, which the band saw on the internet.  We were both so shocked-- how cool was that?? 
 
 

But then things got substantially cooler as Mike called Tom up on the stage, handed him the "Dissidents Rock" guitar and had him sing and play with them as they did a classic Big Country favorite, "Chance." The look on Tom's face was just priceless when he heard Mike calling him up there. I'm so glad he knew the song. He just joined right in like he belonged there. Turns out he and Mike were wearing very similar plaid shirts, too, so he really did look like a regular member of the band.  
 



 


 
 
Here's the video clip that I shot:
and here's the one that our friend John shot, with a head-on view of the stage:
 
 It was such an incredible moment for Tom, and for me, and for our friends who were there, and for a bunch of the die-hard Big Coutnry fans who we've known via the internet for years. As one fan we got to meet at the show put it, "Watching Tom up on stage, during his set and then especially when Mike pulled him up to sing Chance, felt almost like a vindication of all the years of keeping the faith in this band. I'm sure other people have told you this, but you were really representing all of "us" up there. The significance of that is clearly not lost on the band either. Mike said as much onstage. "

The next day, I found a blogpost that Mike Peters had written that night about the show:

" Mike Peters- Big Country Travelogue from the US of A.

It's been a crazy few days running in and out of the rain or "under the sky" to quote from 'After The Flood'. The band has played rain soaked cities and sweltering towns as tropical st...orm 'Andrea' has hit the eastern sea board with the rain just about coming on top against the sun. The shows have been so well received by the audiences over here in the US with many having waited years to see Big Country perform again. There has been a poignancy about many of the moments on stage triggered by a trip through '1000 Stars' or a look backwards via 'Inwards'. Stuart Adamson's presence will always be with us but there is a freedom about the band that is thriving in the atmosphere surrounding the tour. Bruce and Mark are treated with a certain reverence that is befitting of the standing they have with the fans who have waited / prayed for the band to return. Big Country is alive.

It's been interesting travelling and listening to the sounds of America. The rock radio is a lot more 'pop' than it was few years ago. I've heard Fall Out Boy on the 'Rock' radio and the new Pearl Jam song 'The Fixer' which sounds great (We all met Eddie Vedder at Isle of Wight Festival last year and he gave Big Country a shout out during his set with PJ on the Main Stage). The Lumineers, Fun and Passion Pit have been on the tour bus radio and it seems like Mumford and Sons have forced a change in the direction in the way music is played over here which is cool. It makes me feel optimistic for the future and that anything is possible if you have the right endeavour and commitment to the music you create.

I was in Washington this morning (meeting with some high powered lobbyists about a future LHS event), and so enjoyed listening to the radio on the way in, that I put on the 'Steeltown album' for the drive back to Leesburg, VA. It sounded contemporary to me or at least the songs did and I was again reminded of the power of Stuart Adamson and the lyrics he wrote. As fate would have it and unbeknownst to me, Tom Kercheval (who was the opening act), played some of those very same songs on his acoustic guitar 'Flame Of The West' (which sounded like something Neil Young would write today), and 'The Great Divide' (which is such a good song when stripped to the bone). It was insightful listening to him after hearing the album afresh in the afternoon.

With food for thinking and inspiration from all that is happening around us, we absolutely rocked in Leesburg tonight. I saw T.K. down the front and couldn't resist pulling him up to play on 'Chance'. It was a dream come true for Tom and a recognition of sorts for the dedication displayed by the likes of him and many others who have kept the BC flame burning for so long. Big Country will always be eternally grateful.

I'm writing this in the dressing room after the show and reflecting on the road ahead which is 'forever calling'. Tonight we leave the East coast bound across land for Indianapolis and then Topeka, Kansas. We will arrive in Denver on Friday.
The journey continues…. Mike Peters" 
 
So WOW, what a day! So many incredible happenings over the course of a few hours. It's not one that Tom or I will ever forget!
 

Our Magical, Surreal "Big Country Day!" - Part 2

Tom initially wanted both of the boys to get to see his opening act for Big Country, but we decided that it would be better to leave Dylan at home with our trusty babysitter. I was afraid he'd see his Daddy out of his reach up on the stage and would start crying and wailing "Da-Da!" So I took Evan as my date.
                                    

 
Me: "Evan, are you excited about seeing your Daddy up on the big stage?"  Evan: "YEAH!! Um, what's a stage?"

This band handles everything - even setting up their own marquee at the venue. (From the Tally Ho.) :)
A hilarious picture Tom took of Derek (the bassist), Bruce, and Jamie outside the Tally Ho. Their crew is a bit bare-bones, but do they really have to spell their own name out on the marquee? :)
 
                                 
 
The band gave us free VIP passes which allowed us to sit in the balcony and have a great, unobstructed view of the stage, but as soon as we got up there, Evan said he was scared and didn't like those seats. So we went back down and sat at the table right up front near the stage. Turns out we had a great up-close view of Tom.
 

 
He did SUCH A GREAT JOB! He played a few of the more obscure Big Country songs that won't get played live by the band on this tour, but were big crowd pleasers for the die-hards in the audience, and he also played a few of his excellent original songs. He sounded great and I was so very proud of him. Here's the link to full video of his performance:

 

Our Magical, Surreal "Big Country Day!" - Part 1

Tom and I have both been huge fans of the Scottish rock band "Big Country" since we were teenagers, and without our mutual interest in this band, we never would have met. Last year, after a 14 year hiatus, the band reformed with 3 original members and 2 newbies and started playing a few gigs and festivals in the UK/Europe. Then in March 2013, they released a brand new album, which is really excellent, and launched a US tour in June. Tom was planning on joining a friend in NYC to catch the band play there...so imagine our complete surprise when we found out that they were going to play in Leesburg at the Tally Ho Theatre, about 10 minutes from our house!!! <We didn't even know that the Tally Ho was a music venue at that point! We thought it was still a movie theatre!> Tom made a couple of calls and actually managed to get a slot on the stage as an opening act! He was so excited to be able to open for his favorite band - a dream come true! And at the suggestion of a fellow Big Country fan from The Netherlands, of all places, he also got a really nice article written about him in the Leesburg Today newspaper:

http://www.leesburgtoday.com/community_life/big-country-fan-comes-full-circle/article_4aae9ce4-cdf6-11e2-87d1-001a4bcf887a.html

Then about 10 days before the show, Tom woke up to discover that he'd lost his voice. We're talking complete acute laryngitis!  He could barely speak above a whisper and couldn't sing at all! The first trip to the doctor resulted in allergy medicine and an antibiotic - neither of which seemed to help at all.  Then 5 days before the show, he returned to the doctor and came home with an oral steroid to reduce the inflammation in his vocal chords. That stuff made a huge improvement over night, and by the weekend before the show, his voice sounded great again!

We'd met the band's original guitarist, Bruce Watson, a few times before, and he and Tom had struck up a friendship over the phone/email in the last few years. In fact, Tom created the first ever Big Country podcast (like a radio talk show but for the internet) and interviewed Bruce for 4 hours last Fall for a few episodes of the podcast. We are also friends with a guy named John Gouveia who is in very tight with the band and often drives them around from gig to gig or travels with them on their  bus for certain segments of their tours.  John asked if we would be willing to have any of the band members over to use our bathroom facilities... living on a tour bus with no shower for 3 months can be tough, and smelly!  And the band isn't willing to spend all of their concert earnings on hotel rooms every night, understandably!  So we agreed, and on the afternoon of June 11th, Tom drove to the Tally Ho and came back with Bruce Watson, his son Jamie (another fantastic guitarist and great addition to the band), and Sarah, Jamie's girlfriend and chief merchandiser at their shows. They hung out for a couple of hours and we had a really great chat with them. They are all so nice and I love hearing their Scottish accents! Bruce and Jamie also took turns playing my guitar. I still don't understand why it never sounds that good when I play it! ;-)

                                                            The Watsons on my couch!!
 
Later, John brought Mark Brzezicki, the original drummer for the band, over to have a shower. I didn't get any pics of him there, unfortunately.  The boys were home from preschool at this point and Mark got to meet them both. He is quite tall, which didn't intimidate Dylan at all, but Evan ducked behind me and hid his face the whole time that Mark tried to talk to him!
 
I still can't quite get over the fact that after years of having the Big Country guys' pictures plastered all over my walls and school book covers, they have now hung out in my house!!  So bizarre & crazy (but good)!!

Friday, June 14, 2013

Even Spider Men Need To Brush Their Teeth!






The Graduate

Our pre-school had a really nice graduation ceremony for the soon-to-be-Kindergarteners. Evan was so cute in his cap and gown, as were all of the other kids. The school director read a poem about growing up and she could barely get through it without choking up, as her son was among the graduates. Then the kids sang a song called "Graduation Day" and they had a slide show of pictures of the kids taken throughout the year. There were some really funny ones of Evan.  Then they each got calledl up to receive a diploma and the primary teacher for each child said a few words. Afterwards, we had cake and lemonade and then we took Evan out to his favorite restaurant, Moe's, to celebrate.  Tom filmed the whole ceremony and put together a really nice video of it:
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c8Jv_SFbj4U&feature=youtu.be


 

                                     

 
 

                                     








Look Out Kindergarten, Here Comes EVAN!!

It is still a bit hard for me to grasp the fact that my little boy is about to turn 5 in a couple of weeks and is heading off for Kindergarten in September. A few weeks ago, I had to take Evan to the new school for Kindergarten Screening.  It was just me, him and a reading teacher in a small room, and she asked him several questions involving the identification of letters, numbers and colors, etc. He did really well but suddenly became very shy when she asked if he could count to 20. He said he couldn't (which I knew wasn't the case), but the teacher then said "How about counting to 10?" So he did, and then he kept going to 25. :) After the testing, I took him to McDonald's for a Mother-Son lunch and then dropped him back off at pre-school. 



 
The next day, the school had Orientation for the new Kindergarten students and their parents. Tom and I both went to this with Evan but as soon as we arrived, the kids were instructed to sit on the gym floor together and the parents were directed to sit in chairs in the back. I already started to feel a bit of separation anxiety, and I think Evan did too until he saw his friend Sabrina from pre-school. She came and sat next to him and then he was just fine. The soon-to-graduate Kindergarteners at the school put on a song presentation and then each current Kindergartener came and took the hand of a new student and lead them to a Kindergarten class while the parents stayed in a gym. Then at some point, they went from the classroom onto a schoolbus and took a short ride around the neighborhood. Evan says his bus actually went down our street! He had a great time but his parents are still adjusting! :)
 
 

Memorial Day at the Park

I took the boys to Ida Lee Park for a picnic and playground time on Memorial Day. Since I recently booked a pavilion there for Evan's upcoming 5th birthday, I wanted to go scope out the space and the size of the picnic tables, etc. Assuming our weather is decent, it should be a really good place for the party!